A blag request from Kyle, my ideal life. I hope that whoever reads this series of blag posts will take the things I say with a grain of salt, because this is what my ideal life is and that I'm not expecting it to turn out exactly the way I'm describing it.

Hmmm, where to start? It'd be nice to have a significant other. Doesn't matter if they are a boy or a girl, as long as we're happy together. I've never dated a girl before and I can't really imagine myself being with one, but there was this one girl that I had the biggest crush on in high school so who knows~ Anyway back on topic, race doesn't matter either, though I'd prefer Asian or Latino. I can sort of picture it with a certain someone right now, but it's just too bad that he probably doesn't even notice that I'm a girl... because you know, since we've known each other for a while and etc.

Generally, I'd like the guy to be a clean person with a good sense of style - although a "good sense of style" to me can vary from something simple like a fitted shirt/jeans and sneakers to having their own unique style. I like a kind of skate/surf +casual style, maybe a few cardigans here and there too.... Basically, just not look sloppy I guess. I really like it when guys wear hoodies with the hood on if that means anything. I also like tousled hair, but I don't mind straight or wavy or curly. Just something that looks clean and isn't too short or too long is good.

For a girl... I dunno, actually. The only thing that I really sort of know is that I like it when they're not too feminine and to be around my height or slightly taller.

Personality-wise, they would be immature and cute - playful, impish, can make me and others laugh, and be immature in general, but not in a totally dickish way. However, they would have to be serious when the situation calls for it. He/she should let me do what I mostly want, though I wouldn't mind not doing it if they didn't like it. But it can't be over something stupid, like telling me/implying that they don't want me wearing tank tops and short shorts and etc. I'd also like the person to know that I don't put makeup on to attract other people, but (as much as I don't like saying this) because it makes me feel a little more confident about myself.

I don't care too much for those "___ 'month anniversary'" type of things. I don't mind doing something a little out of the ordinary, but I don't think that they should be a big deal either. Like I don't want to have to hand-write a letter to them and give the person a gift and then go out for a dinner at a five-star restaurant for every month that we're together. Something like "___ year anniversary," I think, deserves more attention.

I don't expect to find someone perfect to fit into an exact mold like that, but something along those lines is good enough. I don't need to have a significant other to be happy, but it'd be nice. I'm pretty content the way I am now though, because I like my friends and they make me happy :).

I'll end it here for now. Still have to do ideal job, house/family...... and whatever else I'm forgetting in another blag post.

Labels: ideal life, personal

0 notes