After reading Steven's latest blag post, I sort of realized why my past relationships were such a fail.

It's because I don't give it enough time. I'm talking about the time before the relationship; all of the ones I've had in the past, I knew/got to know the person for <5 months and just jumped right in. There was even one where I went out with a guy that kissed me on the second time we hung out... Pretty bad, I know. I mean for being a girl and all, I've always wanted that kind of fairytale/drama romance where you know the person for a few years and then you end up falling for each other eventually or something haha. Like really get to know the person, be close friends, actually know them on a personal level before doing anything.

For about half of those relationships I've been in, there were a lot of things that ticked me off about the other person that I didn't know about because I didn't get to know them better. Like spitting. Ewww. One of the things I don't like at all is excessive pda. I'm fine with things like holding hands or small kisses or holding each other, anything beyond that is sort of gross to me to do in public lol. Like trying to kiss my neck or make out in public. No. Just no. Not that I've actually made out with anyone before though. But what I really really really really hate is when the other person gets jealous easily. I guess it's sort of cute at first but it ends up getting really... unattractive when they start saying things that imply what you can and can't do. It really made me feel miserable, because I honestly felt like I was being selfish/not good enough/generally bad at being a girlfriend whenever that happened. Then I finally came to my senses and said "sorry bitch, this is my life" except in a nicer way.

So Steven is totally right about building a strong foundation before anything begins. I won't make that mistake again and will be a happy Asian with a happy Asian or non-asian boyfriend/girlfriend. :)

Oh and this was today's yesterday's breakfast. I haven't done breakfast posts in a while and was thinking of taking a picture yesterday morning, but I forgot and ate like half of it before I remembered. It's french toast with blueberries and kiwi :) Sorry for the dark picture though, it was dark in the morning.


And for some reason, I tend to cut my food into square/rectangular shapes. I guess it makes it look neater or something.

And that cake I was eating a few days ago. Mmmmmm.

Labels: breakfast, cake, dessert, food, personal

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